Healthy Boundaries: Learning to Understand and Set Boundaries After Betrayal

What it is

'Set boundaries' is the advice every betrayed partner receives and almost nobody is taught to execute. Dan Drake — a licensed therapist holding CSAT-S and CCPS-S credentials, meaning he is a supervisor-level specialist in both sex addiction and partner trauma — works through what a boundary actually is: a statement about your own behaviour rather than a demand about someone else's, distinct from an ultimatum, a threat, or a punishment. The workbook format matters, because the difficulty is rarely understanding the concept and almost always applying it to a specific situation at a specific moment. Clinical rather than devotional in tone, which makes it usable alongside faith-based work rather than in competition with it. For a partner who keeps saying 'I don't know what I'm allowed to ask for,' this is the book.

What it may help with

• My spouse's porn use has hurt me
• We're rebuilding our marriage

How to access it

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