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Anhedonia, PAWS, and the Quiet Fight for Joy in Recovery

There is a part of recovery that people do not talk about enough. You stop the behavior. You…

I Wasn’t Looking for Porn. I Was Looking for Proof.

There’s something nobody talks about when it comes to sexual sin and recovery — the emotion…

The “Swiss Cheese” Approach to Lasting Freedom

Why the best recovery happens on the training floor, not the battlefield. If you’re fighting for…

Two Dreams and What They Taught Me About Boundaries, Attention, and Recovery

Last night I had two dreams that stayed with me. At first they felt random, but as I sat with them…

We’re Not Walking to a Destination. We’re Learning a New Way to Walk.

Most people begin the fight for purity thinking about a finish line. They imagine that if they can…

Visual Whispers: Managing Intrusive Images in Christian Recovery

Have you ever tried not to think of a pink elephant? The very command makes that image spring to…

First Steps When You’ve Fallen and Want to Come Back

Brother, if you’re reading this, it means your heart is still alive. Men who are done with God don’t…

What “attractive” really means — and why we get to choose how we respond

Men use a lot of words for the same thing: attractive, beautiful, pretty, cute, hot. Each word…

When Fear Tries to Steer You Away—And What to Do About It

We all have dreams. Maybe you long to write better, launch a small business, start a family, or make…

One Year Sober: Why Porn Addiction Recovery Is Hard—and Why It’s Worth It

Today marks one full year sober from pornography. And let me be real: It’s very difficult, and it’s…