WALK IN PURITYWhat it is
Sam Jolman, a therapist and author of The Sex Talk You Never Got, joins Dr. Juli Slattery to talk about the formation men did not receive: no language for desire beyond appetite, no account of tenderness, no framework for what their own bodies and longings mean, and — where that instruction was missing — pornography arriving to supply a version of it. The conversation matters in this directory because it addresses cause rather than management. A man taught nothing true about his sexuality did not learn nothing; he learned something else, from a source with no interest in his good. Free, on the Java with Juli feed. Particularly useful for a wife trying to understand her husband's formation without excusing his choices, and for a father deciding what he wants to say to his son.
What it may help with
- I'm struggling with porn or sexual sin
- We're rebuilding our marriage
- I want to protect my kids
How to access it
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