What it is
Sobriety is the entry fee, not the repair. What most men then do is wait — stay clean, be patient, and hope she comes round — and the marriage quietly fails anyway because she has been given nothing to trust except an absence. Jason Martinkus nearly lost his own marriage to sexual sin and writes about what actually rebuilds trust: proactive honesty rather than answered questions, transparency he offers before she has to ask for it, and behaviour consistent enough over long enough that it constitutes evidence. Written with Stephen Arterburn and published by WaterBrook. It pairs naturally with Help Her Heal, which teaches the empathy side, and with the disclosure material — this one is about the years after the telling.
What it may help with
- We're rebuilding our marriage
- I'm struggling with porn or sexual sin
How to access it
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