Nothing to Hide: Hope for Marriages Hurt by Pornography and Infidelity

What it is

Joann Condie, a licensed professional counselor who also co-wrote AfterShock, condenses her approach into 36 free pages for the spouse who has just discovered betrayal. The organizing device is the FAITH acrostic — Fear not; Assess your support systems; Insist your spouse decide; Talk to a counselor; Heed biblical principles — which gives a person in shock five things to hold onto when they cannot hold a book. Around it she covers restoring trust, intimacy disorders, codependency patterns and the neurobiology of sexual addiction, from a Christian frame, writing as a fellow sister rather than only as a clinician. Free, downloadable as a PDF with no email required, and short enough to read the night it happens. The natural first thing to send someone before they buy anything; AfterShock is the full-length version.

What it may help with

• My spouse's porn use has hurt me
• I'm in crisis and need help now

How to access it

36-page PDF booklet with a resource list Free PDF download, no signup

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