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AfterShock: Overcoming His Secret Life With Pornography

By Joann Condie with Geremy Keeton (Focus on the Family)

Written for the woman in the first weeks after discovery: seven self-care steps, guidance on confronting a husband, and journaling questions in every chapter — from two licensed counselors at Focus on the Family.

Information last checked: 2026-08-29
FORMATBook
PRICEPaid — $16.99
TIMESeveral hours
BEST FORWives who have just discovered a husband's pornography use or infidelity
Directory overview

What it is

Joann Condie and Geremy Keeton wrote this for the specific moment a wife discovers her husband's pornography use or sexual infidelity, and it stays with her rather than pivoting to his recovery. Seven self-care steps anchor the book: processing the emotional shock, understanding what drives the behavior without excusing it, building an action plan, confronting her husband, and moving into her own recovery. Every chapter closes with reflective questions meant for journaling, so it works as a solo processing tool as well as a book. Both authors are counselors, and the approach blends biblical framing with clinical trauma methodology. 224 pages, published by Focus on the Family in 2020. This is the first book to hand a woman in the discovery window, before anything addressed to couples.

What it may help with

  • My spouse's porn use has hurt me
  • I'm in crisis and need help now

How to access it

224-page paperback Purchase from the Focus on the Family store or a bookseller

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